Waiting on application decisions has been something I’d liken to a torturous hell.
It’s extremely nerve-racking to sit around day after day and wait for a law school decision. After receiving my acceptance to Mizzou, I waited over a month until I received another acceptance. So, what does one do during this time? What are some activities that can consume someone’s time that might prevent the ever-looming insanity?
10). Learn a new skill.
I’m a big advocate of learning something new in order to keep your mind off of something stressful. It gives you something else to focus on, AND you’re learning (which is always a plus). Since this cycle has begun, I’ve learned how to knit (laugh away, my friends, it’s fine) and I’ve also started taking an adult ballet class. Good times.
9). Plan a weekly “day-trip”
Start on Monday, while you’re at work, thinking of a place within 60 miles of your home that might be interesting to visit. This will be a place that you probably wouldn’t otherwise visit, but is known as some type of tourist attraction. For example, there are a multitude of old Civil War battlegrounds around my home. We also have a lot of historical sites. So, on Monday make the list. Tuesday and Wednesday call about the location, figure out if there are any quirky restaurants around the site that might be fun to visit once. On Thursday, bribe a friend to go with you. On Friday, print out directions, then on Saturday take the trip.
This gives you something to look forward to every week. It’s relatively inexpensive AND you may just learn something.
8). Try something new.
Note: This is different from learning a skill. Here, you should just try one thing that you’ve never done before. For me, it was a dramatic round of speed dating (soooo terrible, but a fun story). Find something in your neck of the woods that you’ve never done, but that might be fun. This week, I’m going to play in a local poker tournament. Next week? Probably going to check out Bingo Night at the Knights of Columbus Hall. oooh yes.
7). Throw a party.
This is always a good idea, especially because the party doesn’t have to be for you. Just take a look at your calendar, you’ll find that there are a multitude of random holidays almost bi-weekly. Throw an absurd bird day party, it’ll be fun. Or, you could let your more altruistic side take over and plan a party for a friend. In October, I planned a very lavish party for my friend’s 25th birthday. I spent time designing invitations and organizing the dinner menu. Totally took my mind off of everything.
6). Volunteer
One good thing to do when you’re worried about your own life is to give back to those who really need it. I find that volunteering really puts my own concerns into perspective. Recently, I’ve been working in hospitals visiting sick children. I can’t even explain how much this has really helped me.
5). Invest in a video game.
Yes, I realize this may not be up your ally. And, to be fair, it wasn’t really up mine either until I found that every moment of every day I was concerned about the status of my applications. Depending upon what video game console you own (or if you don’t) there are a lot of really great games that you can become seriously addicted to. Here are my recommendations:
PS3 – Skyrim
Wii – Skyward Sword
Xbox – Call of Duty: MW3
PC – World of Warcraft
These are just the ones that I’m playing right now, and they’re all quite a bit different from one another…well, kind of. Find games that you might actually like, then force yourself to play them. I for one never thought I’d play WoW…but now I’m a level 40 ice mage, so….yeah.
4). Prescreen the Oscar films.
Yes, I realize the nominees haven’t been released, but we all have a very good idea of who is going to be nominated. Set aside one night a week to watch a film that is going to be up for best picture. The film will undoubtedly be intriguing and, once again, you might learn something. Beyond that, you get to see George Clooney at least twice…yum.
3). Start Reading a Book Series
If you haven’t read the Harry Potter series, then I’d choose that. It’ll take you a good amount of time to get through that. If you have read it, read it again.
Or, you could move onto other series…personally, I find The Lord of the Rings to be a good place to go, especially because you can read The Hobbit and all of the other corresponding texts. There’s also The Chronicles of Narnia or The Wizard of EarthSea books. If you’re more into genre type things, maybe pick one author and force yourself to read all of their writings. I did this with Ernest Hemingway and it’s pretty cool to say that I’ve read everything he’s ever written. Doing this with Nicholas Sparks, Steven King, John Grisham, or Michael Crichton would be amazing, I think.
The point, though, is to have such a massive amount of reading to do that you don’t have time to stress.
2). Work on a Long-Term Project
Whatever your hobby is, try to make a long-term project out of it. For me, I’m writing a novel. I spend sooo much time creating characters and worldbuilding that I seldom stress about my acceptances and whatnot anymore. Are you a builder? Build something. Are you an artist? Create a showcase and try to get a showing. Are you a musician? Write an album. While I realize this may seem rather lofty…remember that once LS starts, you aren’t going to have a whole lot of time to do what you love, so better to do it now.
1). Join Top-Law-Schools.com
I highly encourage anyone who is waiting for a law school decision (or planning on applying) to join www.top-law-schools.com. It’s a great source of information AND you can even spend some of your time helping out other people who are in need.
But, ultimately, the biggest reason to join this site is because of the people. Because the other users are going through the same process as you, they are extremely supportive (and knowledgeable). I have become friends with some really great people through this site. We’ve helped one another narrow down which schools to apply to, edit personal statements, and survive when maybe our dreams didn’t come true. It’s honestly the best thing I’ve done since the cycle began. Beyond just chit-chatting about law school though, there was a Secret Santa exchange and there are many nights that we play games online. It’s a great community to be apart of. AND it definitely let’s me know I’m not alone in being concerned about my acceptances.